Ottawa Chat Lines Cont...

First off, let me sincerely apologize for taking so long to add to my blog.  But now that I am back, please sit back and enjoy!

Since I never really touched the topics I intended to about the chat lines here in Ottawa in my last blog I thought I would give it another shot here.  Also, once you are finished reading, please feel free to leave any comments, suggestions, ideas, feedback or opinions.  I would love to hear your views or experiences on the topic.

Lately, when I have used the chat lines, the lines are now filled with women looking for pay for play.  I have no problem with the women who are there for pay for play and in fact, I believe it is a much safer venue for them to conduct their business than on the street.  However, I do believe that the women and the men would be better served if they were honest about their appearances.  I know some of these women sound very enticing when they give their descriptions.  I have met a few of them and others I just happen to know from my personal life.  And in fact, they are rarely honest about their appearances. 


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I really think that if they were honest they would still be able to attract some paying customers.  But when you enter into an agreement and arrive, only to find out that the person is not what they said they were it only causes problems for everyone.  It also puts them at more danger in my opinion, if that happened to me, I would be angry to begin with and more likely to act in a less than respectful way during the encounter.  Ladies just be honest!  That said I am sure that men on the lines are the same and I really do not know why you would use this approach.  The only time it makes sense to lie about your appearance is if you are online searching only for phone sex.

This brings me to my second topic of phone sex on the chat lines.  For the life of me, I cannot figure out why most women who record an ad stating they are looking for some “fun on the phone” or leave an ad with some serious heavy breathing rarely turn out to be serious about it.  Most of the time when I message back to these ladies I get no response whatsoever. I mean if you think I am not your type or something, fine, but have the decency to tell me that.  I really do not believe that it is because I am not their type, since it happens all the time.  I think the truth of the matter is that most of these women happen to be too shy to actually go through with any "fun on the phone" in a live chat.  So if you are too shy why bother with the ad? 



Once in a while, I find a lady who really is up for a good old fashioned steamy chat and I am always relieved when I find someone serious about it. 



All of that said, perhaps the problem lies in my ad or greeting… I am curious to know if anyone has a suggestion on a good ad or reply to an ad that will catch a woman’s attention to get them to open up to a live chat and get down to it.  A good ad would probably be something fun, humourous and exciting.  Any ideas on how to do that?

As I have mentioned in previous blogs, I am a married man, and although, I may seem like a perverted old scum bag it really is not the truth.  I will save the debate on the old “You cannot love her if you want to cheat on her…” for another day.  That said, when I am looking on the chat line I am honest about being married and I can never understand why it is so hard to find women interested in having an affair.  I do understand that not every lady would be up for that, but you see it in movies and tv shows all the time. You read about it in newspapers and magazines.  So you know that there are women and men out there who do not mind having a little extramarital fun.  But where are these ladies?  Usually, when I confess that I am a married man, I get “Oh, I just could not do that to another woman” or “I am not comfortable with it if she does not know about it”.  What I really cannot figure out is when I meet a woman on there who is also married but she says that her husband is aware that she is on the chat line and he is ok with her stepping out of the marriage for some fun.   Then she goes on to say that, she cannot have an affair with a man who is married unless his wife knows about it.  I mean really… What makes you so righteous that you would not over look that my wife is not aware of the affair?  You are already committing adultery whether or not your hubby knows about it, but all of the sudden you care about some stranger’s feelings etc… I can never understand that one.  If anyone has some great ideas about where and how to start an extramarital affair, I would love to know the easy answer.  LOL.  Of course, it is never going to be that easy, but still, I am always stumped by the women on the chat lines and their “strong ethics”!

However, I do find that the chat lines are great for no-strings attached sex.  If I am not honest about my wife, it gets very easy for this kind of fun.  As, mentioned in my previous blog, I have so many experiences from that chat-line from before the time I was married that I could not ever blog about all of them.  One that sticks out in my mind though was a young girl who was working as a Real Estate Agent’s assistant.  Her job was to sit in an empty model home and greet potential customers as they came in to view the model.  However, she was in a very low traffic model and was obviously bored at work spending some time on the chat line.  I have to admit some of my stories are so unbelievable, but I swear to you all that each and everyone is 100% true.  We chatted for a short while on the chat line before she urged me to tell me what “I was really on the line for” and I am never shy, and told her I am looking for whatever sexual fun I can find.  Next thing you know, she invites me to visit her model home for a no strings attached blowjob.  First I am thinking, ok, this is too good to be true, I am going to show up and there will not even be a house at this address.  Or the chick is going to be some fat 50 year old grandma.  I drive down to Stittsville, not a far drive from where I was to begin with and sure enough the house just as she described it sitting there.  The lawn still unfinished, driveway unpaved etc… I imagine the unfinished state of the development played a role in the low traffic of viewers there.  Next, I walk up to the house thinking who knows who I am going to find in there.  Surprisingly, when I enter the home I am greeted by a very stunning, atheletic young lady dressed for business in a cute blouse and a dark short skirt with no nylons on her muscular legs. 

She was a dirty blond with short wavy hair, beautiful blue eyes and a young eager look to her.  I believe she was 18 or 19 at that time.  Myself, I would have been 21.  I introduced myself as the guy from the chat line and we made small talk for a very brief moment.  She ushered me upstairs and I followed her watching her very sexy ass in her short and sexy skirt. 





She was really marvellous to look at, and I just could not believe that I had found her so easy.  She brought me to one of the empty bedrooms, with no furniture and we found a spot that was away from the window.  She had discussed with me on the phone that she wanted to give me a blowjob and I was expecting to at least return the favour if not have the situation lead to sex.  We began to make out and as our tongues met my hands slowly moved up her abdomen and I felt her breasts through her blouse. 

She was probably a larger side of a B Cup and firm just like you would expect from a young girl.  I slid my hand down her back and touched her ass, her curves were amazing.  After a short while I removed her blouse and her bra and we lay on the floor together.  I put my mouth to her breasts and sucked on her erect pink nipples and she put her hand on my groin and rubbed my throbbing cock. 

She went on to unbuckle my belt and unzip my pants before taking my cock in her hand and exploring my shaft.  I took of my shorts and in no time at all she was sucking my cock and giving me one of the better blowjobs I have experienced.  She was certainly passionate about blow jobs.  I watched her suck my dick as she sat topless and kneeled between my legs bobbing on my dick. 

When I finally climaxed in her mouth she moaned and sucked down all my cum and sucking the head of my cock for every last drop.  I offered to go down on her and was more than willing but she declined the offer. 

And then as soon as she was done, almost as fast as it had started we were putting our clothes back on and leaving the room.  She was not interested in chatting afterwards or anything else, she was just happy to have serviced me and I was very appreciative.

That is a completely true story, you don’t have to believe it, but its legitimately one of my many hard to believe but so very true experiences.  I would love to hear your experiences, comments, suggestions.  Please leave a comment about my blog and tell me what you are thinking.
See you next time…

Ottawa Chat Lines

I started dating my wife nine years ago and married her nearly three years ago, so we have been together for a significant amount of time.  However, I have never stopped trying to date other women.  I have had some limited success but I believe my honesty stops me from being too successful.  Apparently, most women do not want to have an affair, they don’t want to be your mistress.  You see it all the time on TV men having affairs with women they work with or with strangers.  However, in real life it’s just not that simple; is it?

Where I have been most successful is on the various telephone chat lines around Ottawa (which can be found easily in the Ottawa Sun personals section).  In fact, I had discovered these lines in my youth and over the years I have had a LOT of success with dating and sexual encounters.  Let me start from the beginning. 



When I was just a teen I was not able to access the lines properly since I had no credit card and no way to purchase a membership.  However it did allow you to record an ad and you were alerted when someone was interested.  I used to call and in my ad leave my phone number or e-mail for people to contact me at.  When I was not getting booted off for “misuse of the system” I did have some feedback and made some contacts.  However, this never lead to anything worth writing about here.  Later I did acquire a credit card and my own phone line allowing me to be a bit more of an active participant on the chat lines.  This is where my adventures began.

Over the years I have met too many girls off that line to tell every story, but let me tell you about some of the more memorable ones.  My most favourite were Jasmine and Dana who I began talking with on chat.  Jasmine and Dana were two young flirty and feisty girls in their late teens.  They were sexually inexperienced in every way and were looking for someone to show them what they were missing.  They did not come right out and say it but it was obvious that they were interested in more than meeting for a movie date.

After a few conversations I finally met with them, they asked me to bring some beer when I came.  I remember bringing a six pack and because we were meeting in a public park I draped a sweater over it awkwardly so it didn’t look so obvious.  Which likely only made it much more obvious in retrospect.  We met at the park in west end Ottawa, I was not entirely familiar with the area but the two of them suggested we go somewhere more private and we walked a short way to a grassy hill next to a railroad.  We were up against a chain link fence at the top of the hill, at the foot of the hill was a wooden fence which blocked a row of town homes.  We started drinking and chatting and playfully flirting.

After a beer or two Jasmine the less pretty of the two said so why do you think we wanted to meet you just to talk?  I said that I didn’t know exactly what they wanted and they told me to guess.  I suggested that maybe they wanted to suck my dick.  They giggled and explained that they had not ever seen or touched a cock before.  I asked them if they would like to and Jasmine was quite eager.  Dana mostly sat quite but would agree with a nod or a quick yes.  It was awkward at first and I was not sure what I was getting into because they wanted me to take out my own cock.  I told them that if they wanted to see it they would have to take it out themselves.  I felt that this way I was not asking them to do anything they did not want to do.  Jasmine came to sit next to me and undid my shorts.  She put her hand down my shorts and felt my throbbing cock through my underwear and asked me what she should do next.  I told her she could pull it out if she wanted to.  She did and at first just let it lay there while she and Dana checked it out.  After a while this got boring and I was at risk of losing my hard on.  I said, is that it, you just wanted to look at it.  Jasmine said no, and said that she wanted to give a blow job but was not sure how.  I told her it was easy and I can help.  I told her to put her mouth on my cock and the rest will come naturally.  Next thing you know Jasmine is sucking my cock and Dana is just watching.

Dana was still much more hesitant but interested, as opposed to Jasmine who was very outgoing and not nearly as afraid as she wanted me to think.  Her blowjob was not the best and eventually, I stop her and say why don’t we let Dana try.  Dana agrees again without saying much and is too shy to approach me.  I have to slide over to where she is on the hill with my cock out and I wipe off Jasmine’s saliva with my T-shirt.  I have to ease Dana’s head down to my lap and she begins sucking me off.

Immediately I know she is much more of a natural than Jasmine and she feels so good.  After a little while Jasmine interrupts my enjoyment and asks if she can suck me again.  We switch back to Jasmine for a bit but not long after I stop her and ask her to let Dana have another turn. 

Dana starts again, and she proved that her first try was no fluke, I felt so good to have my cock in her mouth.  It’s not long before I feel that pressure building up in my cock.  I remember whispering to Dana that she is doing very good and that she is better than her friend Jasmine.  I know that Dana has never done this before, but I do not want to stop to warn her about the eruption of cum that is brewing.  I hold it back as long as I can and then let it go deep in her mouth... she stops immediately.


She did not say why she stopped as I am sure at the time she did not fully understand what happened.  Jasmine was hoping to suck me some more but I told her no and she was upset to learn that I had already blown my load in her friend's mouth.  I assured her that I would save her some more for another time.

Sure enough I did meet with Jasmine and Dana again under the same circumstances.  We had some beer and this time Dana got more drunk than last time.  Again Jasmine started sucking my cock first and this time she let me feel her tits as she sucked me off. 

She had a nice size chest and I was enjoying myself but all I could think about was getting Dana back on my cock.  Dana was wearing a pair of overalls, which was somewhat fashionable at the time.  She started sucking my cock and Jasmine directed me to undo her overalls and play with her tits too.  Dana did not want me to feel her, but Jasmine told her that it is only fair because she let me feel her.  Dana allowed me to feel her tits and continued to blow me.  I was in heaven, fondling this beautiful cute blond girls tits while she gave me the perfect blow job.  Dana had small but pert tits and she was exactly the kind of girl I fantasize about.  Young and innocent, truly sweet, inexperienced and willing to play.  I stopped Dana for a moment and we began kissing while I felt her tits and I ended up laying on top of her.  She was still wearing her overalls and shirt but she became frightened and pleaded with me.  Please, no, please don’t do it.  I assume that she thought I was going to have sex with her, which I was not planning on at the moment.  I reassured her that she has nothing to worry about and we got up, for Dana to finish my blow job while I had Jasmine’s tits in my hands.  Dana was more prepared for my cum this time and swallowed my whole load without complaint.

I do not know what happened to these girls, I had Dana’s number for a while, but when I called her mother never let me speak with her.  She seemed like a very mean women from what I could hear on the phone.  I never did get to see either Jasmine or Dana again but it was an experience I will always remember.

There have been many more meetings since this one from girls, to older women, to chicks my own age and meeting for blow jobs, sex, anal sex, pay for play, movie dates, coffee dates etc…  As I said I was very successful with the chat lines but on the other hand there was no long term relationships of any sort formed here.

I will share the other stories another time but there are too many for one blog.  In fact, when I started this blog my intention was to talk about meeting ladies when you are married and to go over what has worked and has not worked for me.  In fact, most of my efforts on that front have not worked.  I would be more than happy to hear from you if you have any ideas on the matter.  I will blog again about this topic since I really did not cover any of it today.

By the way, please leave me a comment, or question, or suggestion.  I would love some audience participation here and it will help me develop blog posts that will keep you all happy!

 

My First Girlfriend

I guess I will start my blogging with some historical stories about where I come from and the experiences that have shaped who I am today.  So why not start with my first girlfriend.  I was in my teens when we first met through a mutual friend.  The mutual friend was actually a girl who I was crushing on, and unbeknownst to me she was crushing on me too.  For whatever reason we never made the connection and she ended up setting me up with her friend.

I remember our first meeting where she barely uttered a word to me; I was not sure how a girl this shy would be able to have a relationship with an outgoing guy like myself.  After our first “date” at the mall, I learned that even though she was very quiet she was still very interested and so we dated again.  And one thing led to another and we became very close.  Neither of us had our license at the time so we had to rely on our parents to facilitate our dates.  Despite the near constant supervision, we had a long 3-year relationship and we spent a lot of time being creative on dates that were of little or no cost since neither of us had jobs initially.   We also were creative at finding activities to do where we could be independent, and unsupervised.

We had a great time in an innocent relationship being very close friends and lovers.  In fact, as innocent as we were, our relationship also had an often non-innocent quality about it.  Relatively early on in our relationship I can remember being at the movies and holding hands in my lap.  I slowly coaxed her hand to my groin where she reluctantly at first would rub me through my pants.  However, shortly after this date I learned that my girlfriend who I had thought was as inexperienced as I, was quite a bit more experienced than I was.  Up to this point, I had merely kissed a girl gently on the lips and I came to learn that my girl had an older boyfriend before me and had kissed him in more places than just the lips.  I had a hard time believing that this was true but to this date, I have no reason to disbelieve it.  Her parents had already split up and she and her mom were going through some rough times when she had met her first boyfriend.  I guess it is quite understandable how a young, impressionable and lonely girl of that age might be coaxed into some relatively adult activities.  Regardless, it was not long before she was going down on me too.  I suppose it was inexperience on both of our parts, but I can remember that although, feeling very good I never was able to cum for her.  Her technique needed improvement but I was not at that time aware of how I could communicate this.  Because we were often supervised, the BJ’s often took place in somewhat stressful situations.  We lived about half hour from one another so when our parents would drive us back and forth at night she would often blow me right behind my parents while we were in the back seat.  I can remember one time when I was just about to cum for the first time but she stopped as we were about to reach my home.  Despite many attempts, I was never able to finish in her mouth.

I can vividly recall the first time I put my hands down her pants too.  We were watching a movie in her mother’s basement with a blanket over us.  I was lying on my back resting my head on the arm of the couch and she was lying on her back on my stomach.  I was reaching around, fondling her tits, and decided to move down her tummy to unbutton her pants.

Back in the day when button up jeans were all the rage.  I slowly unbuttoned one hot button after the other.  I remember being a bit nervous about it, since I was not really sure what my next move was, but eventually, I fumbled around and found what I was looking for.  I can still put myself back into that moment when I for the first time put my fingers inside of her very warm and wet pussy. 

Shortly after this, I moved on to performing oral sex for her.  I was not the first to do this for her, but since she was so often pleasuring me orally, I thought it was only right that I return the favour.

In fact, to this day I am not a guy who shies away from this service.  I have always enjoyed pleasuring women with my tongue; in high school, this definitely boosted my popularity amongst some of the girls since most guys were too grossed out or shy at the idea of going down.  (Ladies feel free to make a request)

At this very early age, I quickly became quite advanced in my sexual experiences and I remember even being embarrassed by this at times.  When one of my friends learned about all the fun I was having through the girl who originally set us up, he once simulated a BJ with stuffed animals.  When I told him to screw off, he said “Why, it’s something you should be proud of”.  And I became aware that I was the only one of my friends that was this experienced.  Still, I was not one to brag about it and did not necessarily feel that it was a good thing that we were doing.  That said I was never ever hesitant to get it on with her in the moment.

During this three-year relationship, we never did progress to having sex.  However, following our break up which was a mutual agreement we remained close friends.  We saw each other often and spoke on the phone for regular updates.  Sometime later in our adulthood we were seeing each other more frequently but still as friends.  I think some of our old emotions were stirring and since we had never experienced sex together before we thought, it might be something to do now.  Finally, after I do not know how many years we did make love.

Just the one time and we remained friends after that too.  Not until I met my last girlfriend (now my wife) and she met her last boyfriend (now her husband) did we cut off contact from one another.  Sadly, the reason for our final break was not due to either of our own feelings; however, our partners were not too pleased with our ongoing friendship considering our past.  I always wonder when our paths will cross again in the future, as I have no doubt that they will.

I figure that the sexual abuse I previously endured played a role with my early introduction to sexual activity.  Although, the abuse I suffered was minimal and could probably be termed more as experimentation (for the abuser) than abuse I feel it has made a lasting impact on my life and relationships.  I sometimes wonder if my first girlfriend has also experienced some childhood sexual abuse.  She has been very open with me over the years on a number of issues but this has never been something that she has revealed.  Perhaps, in her case it was more to do with her parents’ divorce than any actual abuse.  In my opinion, significant, or traumatic events that occur in your childhood continue to affect you throughout your life even if at the time of the abuse you did not realize the significance or trauma such as the sexual abuse I endured.

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Welcome to Sexxxy Ottawa

Welcome to my blog, I am happy that you dropped by and will appreciate your continued support while I venture into the blogosphere for the first time.  Let me start with my bio even though you can find this on my profile.

I spent all of my youth and some of my adulthood in a small Ottawa suburb with many friends.  Since our little town was somewhat isolated from the big-city resources there were not a lot of local events to keep me busy.  This brought me into the city to meet the needs of my active youth, as I was involved in many sports and hobbies.  Over the years, I have built quite the network throughout the Ottawa region.  Who says small towns have no benefits?!?!

I came from a very good family, a hard working father who rarely used his sick days but did use his vacation to treat the family to some amazing adventures across Canada, the U.S. and some of Europe.  My mother was also a hard working stay at home mom.  Above the regular duties of a stay at home mom, she went above and beyond and was active in volunteer work with various organizations from sports to school to charities.  The household was always a buzz of activity between me and my two siblings there was rarely a night when my parents did not have to team up to drag us to all our games, practices and social events.

To the outside world, we were a normal, happy family meeting and exceeding all the expectations of normal citizens.  But of course, every family has its ups and downs and skeletons in the closets.  For us it was no different and we certainly have experienced some of these failures.  Such as teen pregnancy, car wrecks, underage drinking, suicide attempts, sexual abuse, and university dropouts.  In the end, all of the above were on the minor end of the scale, but they have all played a part in shaping me into the person that I am today.

Who am I today?  A 34 year old married man, with a full time job, a house in the suburbs, two cars and a pet cat and dog.  It seems that I am falling into the same mold that my parents formed for me.  Including all the blemishes…  Am I perfect?  From the outside, you might think my life is close to it, but with a closer look, this is not the case.  My blemishes include inappropriate flirting (with intent), finances, lusting for women half my age, recreational drugs, massage parlours, prostitutes and promiscuity in general.

Who will I be tomorrow?  With children in our plans for the near future, this is a question I ask myself nearly every day.  Maybe this blog will help me discover myself and perhaps redefine myself.  Or… do people ever change?  This blog will address all the above issues and my above-mentioned experiences will colour my views and attitudes towards my actions, experiences, and thoughts that are expressed here.  More than anything, this will be an honest and open view of my life.  I encourage and expect audience participation in this blog, so please comment often, provide suggestions, thoughts, observations, or your own experiences whenever they seem relevant or even if they do not.  If there is something you want me to expand on, or something you want me to address, then please let me know about it.  Your participation will increase the usefulness and entertainment value of this blog.  So let me hear it Ottawa!

Thank you for visiting, please check back often, and please refer your friends and contacts!  By the way if you like this blog and want to be updated when my next adventure is published here feel free to add me as a friend on Facebook.  You will find me using my e-mail thicke.rod22@gmail.com or name Rod Thicke.  See you there!